Author Archives: Georgiana Butan

Q4: I have noticed to me I do not know to say ’’NO” when someone asks me something, be it a trivial thing or important for the person. In most of the cases, the request of the person it is to my disadvantage.

A: We are in a balance relationship and communicate effectively with the others when ’’we give without expecting something in return'', when ’’we ask not being afraid of a refusal'', when ’’we received without feeling obliged to give something in return'' and when ’’we refuse without feeling guilty about.'' Perhaps you find it hard to
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Q5: I’m a student. My problem is that I notice, increasingly more often, from my colleagues a rejecting attitude and I do not understand why this happens. What should I do to not be rejected?

A: I suggest you analyze the situations in which you feel rejected and clarify if, indeed, your colleagues reject your and why. Perhaps something of your behavior and attitude determines them to have faced you a rejecting behavior or you perceive like this. Try to remember what they are reproaching to you, and perhaps thereby
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Q6: I am a person with many achievements, both personally and professionally, and in spite of this I’m not happy. I want to be happy, how to do?

A: It's a nice wish! It depends, firstly, what means for you to be happy. Happiness is an inner state and depends on each of us to give it the permission to appear. When we feel strongly tied to something or someone outside of us is a little bit harder to be happy because our
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